I rock. whether you like it or not. LOL.

ppl there behave the way they are. They rarely pretend to be who they're not. 

In other words they are very much themselves. With guys, girls and everyone alike.

I see those guys in singapore, behaving so differently with girls and a group of guys-only. Why? i wouldn't deny that i used to be something along that line but now i'm changing. And i dare say for the better. I mean, why is there a need to be different? for what cause? to charm girls? C'mon if you're really awesome you can be yourself and still win girls the way you are when you're with the usual gang of guys. Oh and if the girl really likes you, she'll like you the way you are. no?

let me give u a rather intriguing example. Although i guess most of u already know; and if you don't well.. read on.

Here's the thing. Do you know that all guys are in truth, very lustful and superficial creatures? maybe even half their minds are spent thinking of girls. If a group of guy-only friends meet up. There's no one session girls wouldn't be a topic for the day. And radars will be turned on if they stroll down the streets of orchard, all by defualt. Thats how we're made & this i assure you. Unless of course, the guy of concern is gay. Trust me. Even the geeks from top-notch schools that you thought couldn't care less about girls are very likely, perhaps, the most lecherous. Like many others, they simply deny. why?

thats just one point. There's still the entire issue of not being urself, character wise, behavior wise and the amount of coarse language used. by that i mean guys who severly tone down their vulagrities used with girls around. Well they still should. but in the first place they shouldn't be that vulgar for the matter..

I'm sick and tired of trying to be, different. heck. if a girl doesn't like me about something. I ain't going to change for who i'm worth. I have my own style and play. Although sometimes i do admit i get ahead of of myself, stray and let off the really ulgy side of me. then again thats all part of the real me. desire to change(or not) must come within me and not for the sake of another.

Plus, don't they always say relationships are where both party truely understand and accept their other half?  ;)